Kiribati

Understanding and respecting Kiribati’s customs is crucial for meaningful interactions and to show appreciation for the local culture.

Greetings and Social Interaction

• The common greeting is “Mauri”, meaning “hello” or “good health.” A simple smile and a warm “Mauri” will go a long way.
• When meeting someone for the first time, a handshake is customary, often accompanied by eye contact and a smile. However, direct eye contact with elders or people of higher status may be considered disrespectful, so observe and follow their lead.
• It is polite to greet everyone present when entering a room or joining a group.
• Elders are highly respected in Kiribati society. When speaking with or about elders, use formal titles and show deference by listening attentively and not interrupting.

Dress Code

• Kiribati is a tropical country, so light, breathable clothing is recommended. However, modesty is important, especially in villages, religious sites, and formal gatherings.
• Women should wear skirts or dresses that cover the knees and avoid revealing tops. Men should avoid shorts in formal settings and opt for lightweight shirts and long pants or sarongs (called lavalava).
• Wearing a lavalava (sarong) is required when attending functions in the mwaneaba (traditional meeting house).
• Swimwear such as bikinis is acceptable only on private or isolated beaches. When entering villages or public areas, cover up with a t-shirt and sarong.

Photography

• Always ask permission before taking photos of people, especially in villages or during cultural events. Many locals appreciate having their pictures taken but value privacy and dignity.
• Avoid photographing sacred sites or ceremonies without explicit consent.

Visiting Homes and Community Spaces

• When invited to a local home, it is customary to bring a small gift such as food or handicrafts.
• Remove your shoes before entering homes or the mwaneaba.
• Meals are often communal, shared from a central platter. Wait for the host’s invitation to start eating and use your right hand only, as the left hand is considered unclean.
• Accept offers of food and drink politely; declining may be seen as disrespectful.

Maneaba Customs

• The mwaneaba is the heart of community life, a large meeting house where social, political, and ceremonial gatherings occur.
• When entering or moving through a mwaneaba, it is respectful to stoop or bend slightly and say “matauninga” (excuse me) to avoid disrupting conversations.
• Dress modestly and wear a lavalava during formal events in the mwaneaba.

Social Behavior and Taboos

• Public displays of affection are discouraged.
• Avoid raising your voice or showing frustration publicly; Kiribati culture values humility and calmness.
• Do not touch a person’s head or raise your hands above someone’s head, as the head is considered sacred.
• Avoid walking between people who are talking; instead, go around them or stoop and say “matauninga” while passing.
• Pointing directly at people is rude; use an open hand gesture instead.
• Public drunkenness is unacceptable.

Traditional Customs: Te Mweaka

• When visiting an island or place for the first time, you may be asked to participate in Te Mweaka, a customary offering to the island’s ancestral spirits, traditionally tobacco, to seek permission and protection during your stay.
• Respect this tradition as it reflects the deep spiritual connection Kiribati people have with their land and ancestors.